ADVICE PLEASE IM LOST

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Registered: 06-18-2007
ADVICE PLEASE IM LOST
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Mon, 06-18-2007 - 11:14pm
So there was this guy that ive like all through high school its been like a crush thing we never dated or fooled around. But its been a year since we have graduated and now that im back home for the summer i just kind of figured i could put it behind me and come to find out my brother comes home from school and he's best friends with this guys brother and he's telling me things like oh he's always liked you and you should just give him a chance but i sent him a message online and he never responded should i call or just leave it alone he is a really off standish kind of guy and i really still like this guy but im not sure what do believe.... HELP
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Registered: 06-03-2007
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 2:22am
DO NOT CALL THIS GUY. The message was more than enough. Any more than what you've already done and you're chasing after him. Trust me, you don't want that. If he's really interested, he will call you. If he doesn't, then you have your answer. If this is still unclear, the answer is if he doesn't call you he is not interested and you shouldnt waste any more energy or time on him.
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Registered: 11-30-2006
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 2:31am
In this case, you can have your brother help you out with sending a few kind words to the guy and maybe your brother can mention that he could you. Then bro has to go and leave the two of you to your own devices.
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Registered: 10-17-2002
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 10:57am
How about have your brother pass the word along that the feelings are mutual and that you'd be open to this guy asking you out.

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