after 10 yrs, should I leave?
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after 10 yrs, should I leave?
| Thu, 07-08-2004 - 1:13pm |
My husband and I have been together 10 yrs, married for 4. And I just am not in love with him anymore. He is a negative person, and I am upbeat. He has no goals, I do. These are just a couple of our differences. We both work for the same company so I would have to find a new job. We have very few of the same friends. He likes to stay home and drink on the weekends, I would rather go spend the day at the beach. And sex with him, is the very last thing I want to do. I just don't vibe with him anymore. We have no children, so I really don't know what is holding me back, except for the fear that I will fall flat on my face. Most of my friends say "if your not happy, leave" what do you all think? I wanted to get an outsiders point of view....

No matter what you choose to do, you will have to be separated for one year before a divorce can be granted.