After 2 months, should we try again?
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After 2 months, should we try again?
| Wed, 09-22-2004 - 11:01pm |
'Ex' is a strong term for this relationship that I'm referring to. I met a guy in march, and by june we were finally dating after bumping into each other several times and hitting it off. We dated on and off for 6 weeks or so - he is really shy, and I wasn't sure how I felt. It finally ended due to what we referred to as the 'sleep-run' disorder. I love to run and be fit, healthy and active, and he has a more lethargic and party lifestyle - eating out a lot, drinking with friends and playing guitar. But we have a real connection and when anything happens in my life he's the first person I want to talk to. After 2 months apart, we are still great friends, and communicate throughout the day every day via internet, phone, and in person (we work at the same company). We ended up spending the night together last weekend (first time in over 2 months) and it was amazing. I realized how much I missed him and I can't help but wonder if we should try again but I wouldn't want each of us to be wishing the other person was more like ourself.
Now I don't know where we stand. Part of me wants to ask him to give it another shot and part of me is leaning towards letting it go because of our different lifestyles... but when he comes near my desk my face turns red and I feel happy... my colleagues can see it. When we saw each other at the bar on the weekend, we were drawn to each other.
What do you think - Is this worth persuing?
