After the first introduction

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Registered: 08-17-2004
After the first introduction
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Tue, 08-17-2004 - 1:50pm
I just met my first online match at match.com last night. I think it went really well...we laughed a lot, then he drove me home and I thanked him and got out of the car, but we didn't establish a yes or no for future plans. Should I email him and thank him for the date today or should I just wait for him to contact me?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 1:56pm
ARGH!!!!! You let a stranger drive you home???? What were you thinking, woman???? Safety first in online situations!

Ok, now that I've got that out of the way, you should definitely wait for him to contact you. You thanked him while ON the date, as is proper...why do so again? He'll contact you if he's interested in going out again.

Sheri

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Registered: 07-20-2004
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 2:20pm
Wait for him to contact you. If a guy wants a second date he will initiate it.
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Registered: 08-10-2003
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 8:32pm
Don't contact him! Let him call you. Men don't like when women they date for the first time call them right after OR the day or days after the date. For some reason they find that needy...hmmm. Let him call you BUT don't wait for him, keep on meeting men on the site. Remember that men don't put all their eggs in one basket, follow their lead.