Aftermath of a rejection
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Aftermath of a rejection
| Thu, 03-11-2004 - 2:58am |
What is the best, most self preserving behavior a woman should exhibit when she occasionally has to cross paths with a man who rejected her and won't even speak to her or acknowledge her? Ignore him as he does me? Need helpful reminders.

If anyone (ex or not) doesn't talk to you after you've made an attempt to be congenial, then forget them. When you see him, look straight ahead and keep walking...
The best self-preserving behavior is to not acknowledge any more than the other person does. Mirror their behavior. If they smile at you, you can smile back without it having affected you in any way. If they ignor you then they can easily be ignored.
But, think of it this way, you know who you are and what you are about and you can realize that they haven't rejected you personally - they have rejected something about you maybe but they did not reject you as a person. You may not be right for them but this does not mean that you aren't right for anyone - see what I mean?
Keep your head high, chin up and walk with a positive step. Walk on by and don't stop on the corner and look back...
tg
Love, starlight208