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Age?
| Mon, 10-22-2007 - 8:36pm |
He is 40 I am 20. Bad idea? I really like him and we have discussed the age thing, but we seem to match up on so many levels.
He acts mature, but he is still young. You know what I mean?
He has 3 kids. Which he raises on his own. The oldest is 17. It would be super awkward to be a step-mother to a 17 year old.
We are getting super serious so I want to know if this is one of the stupidest things I have ever done before I lose my heart to him.
He acts mature, but he is still young. You know what I mean?
He has 3 kids. Which he raises on his own. The oldest is 17. It would be super awkward to be a step-mother to a 17 year old.
We are getting super serious so I want to know if this is one of the stupidest things I have ever done before I lose my heart to him.

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Sooo I have a massive crush on my professor and I would SO so would marry him in a heart beat.
If you've only been dating for a month you are putting the step mom cart way before the horse!
YG
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As you get older I don't think age really matters, but you are only 20 years old, your brain keeps maturing until around age 25 or so (if you were 40 and he was 60) that is different because by then you should both be matured. I agree with the other poster, you will not feel the same or have the same outlook on life when you reach the age of 25 as you do now.
I know I didn't, got married at age 17 (thought I knew it all) he was only 6 years older, but the maturity that I acquired by the age of 28 was tremendous. I was divorced by age 30 (there were other factors besides age).
I think you should let this one go for now find someone closer to your age, right now its like you are dating your dad. He has sowed his wild oats, and lived a lot more than you, had experiences that you have yet to have. Back off of this one for now, you have your whole life ahead of you. You are way too young to be even thinking about being a step mother or a mother for that matter. After only 1 month of dating (regardless of age) that is just too much, to soon. Good luck
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