Age?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2007
Age?
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Mon, 10-22-2007 - 8:36pm
He is 40 I am 20. Bad idea? I really like him and we have discussed the age thing, but we seem to match up on so many levels.
He acts mature, but he is still young. You know what I mean?
He has 3 kids. Which he raises on his own. The oldest is 17. It would be super awkward to be a step-mother to a 17 year old.
We are getting super serious so I want to know if this is one of the stupidest things I have ever done before I lose my heart to him.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
In reply to: marievc
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 9:46pm

The definition here, in the US, of "crush" is an infatuation.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
In reply to: marievc
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 9:58pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2007
In reply to: marievc
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 12:18am
Yes, here the definition is different.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2007
In reply to: marievc
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 11:06am

Marie,


This is just my opinion, and it's up to you to take it into consideration or not. I think it's absolutely insane to date a 40 year old when you are 20. I am 22, and I can hardly force myself to even be attracted to someone who is 30. I know age is just a number, but I agree with others for him you are just a very big ego boost. Of course, a 40 year old

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2007
In reply to: marievc
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 3:20pm
We have broken up all is good. 40 is old, but 20 year olds are immature and stupid
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2007
In reply to: marievc
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 3:26pm

I agree with you, some 40 year olds can be immature too lol I think. I usually date guys who are 3 - 5 years older than I am, and we usually connect since we are at the same stage of our lives. So, I would say for you middle twenties, but it all depends on the person. Anyhoo, Good luck! You are def a very smart girl


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Registered: 10-17-2002
In reply to: marievc
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 4:55pm

Wow.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2007
In reply to: marievc
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 5:20pm
We had a major fight. So we broke up.

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