Almost ready to give up on dating

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Registered: 06-01-2003
Almost ready to give up on dating
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Sun, 09-04-2005 - 9:45am
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Edited 9/5/2005 2:02 pm ET ET by ising101
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Registered: 08-16-2005
Sun, 09-04-2005 - 10:14am

Never give up, never surrender!

I don't think your situation isn't as bad as you make it out.

Its better then me where I had no relationships. Imagine being 29yrs old, going thru life not knowing if you are attractive or you're even good enough to be in a relationship.
I had various self-esteem issues due to that. But I refuse to give up cuz I need to know.

You got good qualities that guys look for, so you're bound to find someone decent.
Do things where you know you will find quality guys.
For example, I'm actually going to start volunteering soon, so hopefully I expand out and maybe meet someone nice.

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Registered: 05-31-2005
Sun, 09-04-2005 - 4:46pm

Totally hear where you're coming from... I felt this way as well recently. All I can say is that it sometimes helps to take breaks... You don't want to allow yourself to become cynical and the only way I see that not happening is by stepping back from it all, just like you're doing.


I do believe that everyone has someone out there. Finding it can definitely be tedious at times. I'm throwing good wishes at you that you'll find yours sooner rather than later.


*hugs*

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