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| Mon, 10-18-2004 - 3:47pm |
hi everyone,
i'm 19 and am facing a dilemna
i've fallen for an amazing guy that i met volunteering for a political group at my university, we get along welll intellectually and are getting to know eachother more and more, and i find us flirting physically as well
trouble is, he has a girlfriend of a couple of years who he now lives with
i'm the last type of person to want to break up a relationship, and never thought i'd face a situation like this
but... does anyone think it wrong for me to pursue our connection without doing anything radical (physical moves, telling him, etc) in hopes that he feels the same way? i mean, its not like everyone in a relationship is perfectly content
i'm feeling really tortured by this and don't know if i should (can) move on, or if i have any hope-anyone else dealt with a similar circumstance?
thanks so much for your advice
-energiea
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i'm 19 and am facing a dilemna
i've fallen for an amazing guy that i met volunteering for a political group at my university, we get along welll intellectually and are getting to know eachother more and more, and i find us flirting physically as well
trouble is, he has a girlfriend of a couple of years who he now lives with
i'm the last type of person to want to break up a relationship, and never thought i'd face a situation like this
but... does anyone think it wrong for me to pursue our connection without doing anything radical (physical moves, telling him, etc) in hopes that he feels the same way? i mean, its not like everyone in a relationship is perfectly content
i'm feeling really tortured by this and don't know if i should (can) move on, or if i have any hope-anyone else dealt with a similar circumstance?
thanks so much for your advice
-energiea
(x-posted)

Also, how would you like it if you were living with your boyfriend and some girl KNEW full well you were living with him and decided to pursue/chase and seduce your live in boyfriend? I truly do believe in what goes around comes around and have been around long enough to see it happen and anyone who thinks they are immuned to it, has another thought coming.