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Always on the go
| Wed, 08-04-2004 - 2:08pm |
I just started dating this guy about a month ago and he is amazing, I have known him about 4 months! My only issue is he just does what he wants, whenever. We had plans to meet at a local bar last night after I got off work. He said if I am not at the bar go back to my place. So I went to his place and he was not there. I tried calling and he would not answer. I know he was with his buddies and they tend to get really torn up when they are out. This is not the only time it has happened. I know that he is into me. He is so sweet and he always says how much he likes me. We really seem to have a strong connection with one another. And I love that we are not tied down and he could careless that I do drinking at the clubs with my girlfriends. To tell the truth I have never had so much trust in a guy I have dated before him. But how do I let him know that when he has plans with me and skips out, it sucks! without sounding like a nag? I really like this guy. I like the freedom we have with each other, but what he did was a little shady.

So he makes future plans with me in it. I don't want to play too much hard to get. That WILL turn a guy off. UHH this dating thing sucks! I hate playing games.
What ever happened to the 3rd grade DO YOU LIKE ME X Yes or NO or MAYBE
What was really pathetic about the evening is that he called my best friend, to set her up on a date with a friend of his. She asked me to go ahead to the bar and give him a "once over". She was glad she didn't come straight out to the bar with me, not a very good first impression.
Honestly, I think this guy is so use to doing what ever he wants to do, that he does not consider other peoples feelings. And that is just something I will have to decide if I want to put up with. My friend and I call him "The Free Spirit" I wish boys could act more like girls, in the sense that they usually are forward about what they want and don't lead people on and play games.