Am I being blown off?? Mixed signals?
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| Sat, 09-29-2007 - 3:49pm |
Last Saturday I went out with a guy who seems really great. He's very attentive when we're together, very sweet and polite, we have great conversation and enjoy our time together. I saw him again on Thursday and during dinner he invited me to join him and his friends for drinks and dancing on Saturday (today). Due to a tentative prior family commitment, I told him that I wasn't sure if I'd be able to make it out on Saturday night. At the end of dinner, he walked me back to my car, kissed me goodnight and then said he hopes to see me come out on Saturday with him. I texted him the next day to say I had a great time and such. He wrote back a little later (about an hour later -- he was working so the lack of immediacy isn't a concern or a sign of lack of interest) and said that it was his pleasure and that he had fun as well and also wished me a good day.
My family commitment has been postponed to next weekend since it will be a long weekend here and more family will be in town then so it works out better overall. I text messaged him last night around 9:15-ish to say "I'm up for tomorrow night if the offer still stands. :)". I didn't hear back from him and it's now the next afternoon. Am I being blown off and should I make other plans for tonight or should I wait it out a little longer. Afterall, I did receive his invitation first and sort of accepted it through text message so I'd like to be able to not end up blowing him off in the end. It's only noon here so it's still early in the day but at the same time, I don't want to waste my time if he doesn't end up calling to arrange things. Ideas?
Also, is it a little early to meet his friends? He's not at all rushing anything in the way of pushing for a sexual relationship so it's not like I feel that he's rushing anything in terms of a relationship at all. Still, I've only met friends after things start to become somewhat serious and that's not usually for a few months down the road.

Have you tried phoning him instead of texting him?
Maybe he invited someone else to join him and it would be uncomfortable to have you there, or...maybe not.