am i being dumb ?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2004
am i being dumb ?
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Tue, 09-28-2004 - 3:12pm
well here is my situation. me and my ex have been broken up now for almost 3 weeks. And in those 3 weeks ive seen him at least 3-4 times. weve hung out kissed talked alot.BUT ABSOLUTLY NO SEX!!! he knows i dont want to. The other nite we got together. a lil tipsy both of us. but he was tellin me how he missed holding me and it felt so good and right when he did.we talked alot and he just seems still interrested but maybe scared.He said he doesnt do much now that hes not with me. and jus seemed genuine. IM really scared though cause i want him back. but i dont want to push. but it just seems so right when things happen like talkin with him. i want ask him 2 the movies but im not if its too informal or too soon to ask and just hang out. he called yesterday just to talk. im not sure if he still carss or just wants me ther as a convienence. i really love him a lot but hes confusing me. any advice on if i should hang out or not ?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2004
Fri, 10-01-2004 - 11:27am
well..... as of last night i am not friends with him. i told him i need 2 be by myself right now and not see him. or talk 2 him. it had 2 have been the hardest thing for me 2 do. but... it feels much better even thought im hurting. im keepin my sanity. i love him and all.and knowing one day i may have 2 hear about his new grl will kill me. but for me 2 keep kissin him and seeing him a lot only gives me wishful thinking and he doesnt want that either cause he said he wants 2 be friends and that kiss was in the momeent and he didnt really look into it. and knowing he didnt have any emotion in the kiss kills me cause i honeslty think hes hiding it so he doesnt fall anymore. cause hes not with me. cause i honestly believe to kiss an ex u have 2 have some type of feeling. but he told me. u have my email and number . call me when ur ready . so at leats he seems sincere in the fact he does wanna be friends and he came out 2 talk 2 me about it in person shows a lot and that he may care . anything u can tell me or any advice cause i really love him but giving him up is so sad and depressing, and complicating. anyone help ?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2004
Fri, 10-01-2004 - 5:44pm
Why did u 2 break up?