Am I expecting the nonexpectant???

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Registered: 06-20-2004
Am I expecting the nonexpectant???
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Sun, 12-19-2004 - 7:03pm

It's kind of a confusing situation because my sister dated him before...Well any ways I'll tell you the facts and see what you guys think...I'll take any info that I can...

This guy is about 5' 7-8", he is sweet, he likes to skateboard and hang out with his friends, he's kind of shy but yet is outgoing at the same time, he worries about his rep alot but some how often he doesn't care. He went out with my sister on and off for about a year. Then my sister went out with a guy named Nick and has never went back. Pat (the guy I'm talking about) and my sister (Brandy) got over eachother. Or atleast I think so and that's what they tell me...any way thats not the point. Pat is extremley fit and kind and... and...well just very similar to my self. A while ago when he was with my sister...she asked him if he liked me...he told her he wasn't going to lie and said yes...a little bit. Now that they aren't with each other, I have this feeling that Pat is trying to tell me he wants to go out with me now. In Oct. on my sisters birthday...we were playing spin the bottle...not very many people maybe 7 or 8...we had this rule...since everyone didn't exactly know each other real well...that each person you land on you have to kiss the person on the hand for three lands then you have to kiss them on the lips. Well Pat started to kiss me on the lips before we hit three...I kissed him on the cheek once because I landed on him and we hadn't hit three yet...he goes ow I see how you are you don't want to kiss me on the lips he said in a joking manner...that very night we slept next to each other at my sisters party...he didn't mind...and we woke up with my arm around him.
Well that was message one. Now for message two. Now Pat will call me and talk to me for hours on end. And when him, my sister, her boyfriend and I went to the movies he gave me his hat to keep. It was one of his favorites.
I had finally worked up the guts to tell him how I feel...he told me a bunch of other girls are after him too and he really doesn't want a girlfriend untill a week or so after Christmas...I know that that sounds weird...he told me why and you don't even want to know.
I'm about 5' 9", we like some of the same music and we have alot in common...I'm not nearly as fit as he is...for that matter I'm not fit at all...I'm not discustingly not fit but not selling my self short either...but any way what I really want to know is if I'm just paranoid or if I really have a chance here....Thanks

Have a great Christmas and a Happy New Year everyone!!!,
Dragonsbabyblue

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Registered: 06-20-2004
Mon, 12-20-2004 - 7:40am
update;7:40am Dec. 20, 2004