Am I just being insecure??
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Am I just being insecure??
| Tue, 06-06-2006 - 12:18pm |
I am freaking out and probably for no good reason at all. I am falling in love with my boyfriend Todd and am pretty sure he feels the same way I am just afraid right now I think that something is going to go wrong like all other relationships I have had. We spend almost everynight together and he treats me amazingly. He is out of town visiting his family and before he left he made sure that he saw me that night. I left that morning and told him to call me when he got there so I knew he got in safe. He called me as soon as he got into town on Friday night. I sent him a text message on Sunday just saying hi and hoping he was having a nice time. He called me later that day to say hi and see what was going on and we hung up and he said he would be home sometime on Tuesday. We chatted and I remembered that I had forgotten to tell him something so I sent him a text later. He never responded. I didn't hear from him at all yesterday and just called him this morning to tell him I was excited to see him. We are very open with eachother and he always responds and I haven't heard anything. He couldn't have gotten "annoyed" or stopped liking me in a matter of a day or two, could he? I am just so used to getting screwed over and I am really scared because I have fallen hard for someone who I think feels the same way.

Yes, I think you are just being insecure. I understand your anxiousness as we tend to wait on pins and needles for any sign from the other person when the relationship is new, but the best thing is to not jump to any conclusions until you hear it from him. Relax and be cool because if you keep calling him, it might just stress him out.
I was in the opposite position early on when I started dating my boyfriend and I can tell you his insecurities about my feelings just created a lot of pressure and stress. Hopefully he'll understand your need for a lot of communication and you can likewise understand that he might not always be able to reply promptly (and no doubt you'll sometimes be unable to do the same).