Am I just being picky?
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| Mon, 07-26-2004 - 8:07pm |
I just got out of a four year relationship with my boyfriend. the road to recovery is well on its way and i have been enjoying going out with my friends and have started to meet some guys. i have been dating one in particular. he is a really sweet guy, very nice, smart, fun, and he is a pilot (that impresses me). well, i hate to sound mean and ruthless, but the boy is like a toothpick size wise. he is my height so that is okay but he just makes me feel so huge! i know all girls like to feel small and that is why we are usually drawn to taller, bigger guys. its just kind of like hugging a bean pole. i hate for that to be the reason to not puruse things father, but it really bothers me. its like after being in a relationship for four years i want to make sure that the next guy i get involved with is exactly what i'm looking for. i feel so bad for feeling this way, but i was just wondering if any of you have any advice or have encountered some similar situations.
thanks!

Thats just my 2 cents.
Good Luck!!!!
Relax and have fun with this guy and continue to date others as well!
I briefly dated a "beanpole" (in high school) and finally was forced to admit to myself that I just wasn't attracted to him (although some people like beanpoles, that's fine, each to his own).
I don't think you're being overly picky.
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Well, you've also just gotten out of a 4 year relationship so you really might not really be ready to settle down.
Also, we all have "types" so what you feel is not horrible, it's what you feel.
If he's good to you, you enjoy spending time with him, and enjoy the "physical" part of your relationship with him as well then what more do you need? I suppose in the end, you are the only one who can decide how picky you can afford to be b/c as well all know, a good man is not always easy to find.