Am I just paranoid or what
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Am I just paranoid or what
| Fri, 11-19-2004 - 12:01pm |
I have been dating the same guy for about 2 months and we just recently took it to the next level. Our relationship developed VERY slowly. It took him 2 months to kiss me goodnight, and even then, it was just a quick kiss. He just asked me to join his family for the holidays, so I know he is taking it seriously. To top it off, he asked if I wouldn't mind if he introduced me as his girlfriend. I was shocked, but very happy to hear that he wanted to move to the next phase of our relationship. We have not explored a physical relationship at all, just a few kisses here and there, but nothing major. We have also been spending a LOT of time together. Ever since our talk about the holidays, he has been tapering off his contacts with me. I am wondering how to handle this. I typically try to be on watch for signs that he isn't interested in me, but I don't know if I am just being paranoid or if I am right on. Should I slack off on the contacts too, or should I just bring it up to him that I need LOTS of reassurance in the beginnings of a relationship until I am confident in the stability of it?

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I wouldn't say this, it sounds desperate and needy. Why not just contact him when you want too and not worry about it.