Am I The Only One In His Life?
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Am I The Only One In His Life?
| Thu, 10-06-2005 - 10:55pm |
Oh no! I posted a discussion Need Insight on 10/5. Well it's 10/6 and I was messing around on the computer and I went to this random dating site and the guy I have been seeing has an active profile. I was not looking to find a date. I sometimes browse when I am bored out of my mind. When I saw his picture it felt like someone punched me in the stomach and then i laughed. We have not discussed what we are, but he does know how I FEEL about him. WHAT SHOULD I DO? My first thought was to join that dating web site and let him find my profile to see how it feels, after thinking about it. It seemed like a bad, bad idea. In a way he is not doing anything wrong because we are not boyfriend and girlfriend. What do you think and what should i do?

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How long have you been seeing him? Since there's no exclusivity, he's not doing anything "wrong" by having his profile on a dating site. I think you're jumping the gun.
BTW, I read your other thread ... did anything come up about the letter you sent to him?
If you post a profile for him to find, you are effectively doing the same thing that you are upset about. Don't imitate behavior you don't appreciate. Playing games will bring on more games, that's not something you want to do.
Personally, if it is something that is really irking you, I would bring it up to him in a non-threatening manner. Let him know that you were browsing the site out of boredom and came upon his profile... See if he'll talk about it. If he doesn't, then don't be too aggressive about it. But if he does, listen to what he has to say and trust your instincts. Since you have not agreed to being exclusive, there is not much you can do as hard as that is.
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