Am I the problem here?
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Am I the problem here?
| Sat, 07-24-2004 - 12:18am |
I don't know if there's something wrong with me, but this is the second time this has happened to me in less than 6 months and I'm wondering...
I met my ex-boyfriend about a year ago, everything was great between us and he was really into me. He's the one who pursued me for a good while until I accepted to have a relationship with him. But then, I don't know, once I started to show real interest in him and started to develop feelings for him, suddenly he was not interested in me any more. So long story short, he broke up with me, just like that, with no real reason.
Now, I met this other guy a couple of months ago. He's the one who approached me and asked me out and everything, and he would call me almost every day to go out, see me, etc. At first I was not really interested in him, and this obviously made him even more persistent. Then, as I started to like him and show more interest, suddenly he just stopped calling.
Can you believe these guys??? What's their problem?
Now, I'm thinking maybe I'm the problem, because this has happened to me twice in less than six months! Maybe I should be more careful on showing too much interest or try not to be available all the time, but on the other hand, I'm not that type of person who puts an act or tries to pretend something (in this case, pretend I'm not interested). I don't like to play games. I like to be genuine and sincere, so I'm just being myself. If I like a guy and I want to see him, I show it.
Am I doing wrong? Should I start being more "calculating" and play hard to get or something?
By the way, I'm 25 and I'm just too old to play games.
What do you think? I'd appreciate your opinions!
Thanks!
I met my ex-boyfriend about a year ago, everything was great between us and he was really into me. He's the one who pursued me for a good while until I accepted to have a relationship with him. But then, I don't know, once I started to show real interest in him and started to develop feelings for him, suddenly he was not interested in me any more. So long story short, he broke up with me, just like that, with no real reason.
Now, I met this other guy a couple of months ago. He's the one who approached me and asked me out and everything, and he would call me almost every day to go out, see me, etc. At first I was not really interested in him, and this obviously made him even more persistent. Then, as I started to like him and show more interest, suddenly he just stopped calling.
Can you believe these guys??? What's their problem?
Now, I'm thinking maybe I'm the problem, because this has happened to me twice in less than six months! Maybe I should be more careful on showing too much interest or try not to be available all the time, but on the other hand, I'm not that type of person who puts an act or tries to pretend something (in this case, pretend I'm not interested). I don't like to play games. I like to be genuine and sincere, so I'm just being myself. If I like a guy and I want to see him, I show it.
Am I doing wrong? Should I start being more "calculating" and play hard to get or something?
By the way, I'm 25 and I'm just too old to play games.
What do you think? I'd appreciate your opinions!
Thanks!

Sheri
You'll find someone worthy of you, don't worry.
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