am I reading this wrong?

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Registered: 04-24-2006
am I reading this wrong?
Tue, 06-27-2006 - 7:41pm
Ok so I've been on here before about the same guy within the last 2 weeks. Anyways, every time we are out at our friends house over the weekend he doesn't talk to me, unless it's just us in the room, or us and any kids, but when our friends are in the room, he doesn't say anything at all, to anyone. It's been driving me wild, not crazy but wild. I think it's making me want him even more. So on the advice of our friend she said you have kids and you cant just run around and have a whole lot of fun because it will end soon and ask him and tell him it drives you this way when he treats you like you dont exist, thats how my ex treated me. So I decide to queue him up today on the walkie talkie and I tell him I wanna ask him something thats been "driving me wild" I say its not a big deal call me when you're not working or something I jus need to ask you something. He calls immediately and I was in the shower said I'd call back. He calls back again around 12 lunch time and I tell him, hey look if you're on the walkie talkie call me back you may not want to do this right now while working and this is better in a phone call, he says no, I have the time, I say who are you around and he says speak your mind, I have all the time you need. So I tell him and everything, exactlty how I feel and that people keep asking whats with me and him and i say I dunno I guess we had our fun. I tell him I dont know what we're doing, blah blah blah. Anyways, he says I'm just that type of person and he says ask anybody. I said I know thats what I like about you but I dont like being treated like I dont exist about 10 minutes I says you know thats it I'm not a push over, a fling or a slut and I wont be for anybody and I dont want you to think that way. He says no, no, I dont think that. He says did you get everything off your back, and I said yeah and he says alright he had to go back to work. He knows where I stand and everything so I'm gonna leave him alone. How long should I wait for him to call if he does call, lol? And was I wrong in as much as I said to him. I've been talking to him off and on for about 5 weeks. I've spent 4 weekends from start friday to end monday morning with him, well at a mutual friends house, which keep in mind he doesn't talk except for when we're alone. Am i reading to much into this, in either direction, and if so which way am I reading him worng. We went out for ny birthday fathers day weekend, and we went together but more as friends, it ended great the whole time he was into me, all over me, you know I was all over him and i didn't talk to him, the entire week after until this weekend, sbould i give up on this guy or try and open him up? I'm confused, and I think I need to give up and maybe see if he comes to me, I dunno what to do, keep in mind we live an hour and a half apart and we aren't "together"