Am I strange??? LOL
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Am I strange??? LOL
| Tue, 09-20-2005 - 6:27pm |
Hi, I'm 26 years old, and I've been single for 5 years now and found that I'm ready to date again, but I realized that I've lost patience with the maturity of guys who are my age and I find older men (around 40) more attractive and more appealing to me (regardless of their physical appearance) that men my age. I thought about it and maybe it has to do with growing up without my father. Is this normal?
Help if you can.

jboud20...
Pianoguy thought about your post a little and thinks there are 2 answers to your question:
1. You might have missed the benefits of having a 'father-figure' in your life...and you're looking to a MORE MATURE MALE (PG hates the word: OLDER) as a substitute?
2. Your educational background and value system might be more comfortable (and 'relate' a little better) towards a gentleman whose birth certificate is considerably "earlier" than yours?
Many men would probably be flattered by your attention, love and desire to share a life? But never lose sight of the fact that ANY man...who is "conditioned by habit" or used to a certain type of lifestyle...isn't automatically going to change because you've suddenly become 'part of the picture!'
Pianoguy
1. Older
2. Older
3. Older
;)
Lots of women like older men, so no, you're not strange. However I wonder why it's taken 5 years for you to be ready to date again.
Sherry