Am I too picky?
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Am I too picky?
| Mon, 10-25-2004 - 10:01pm |
I'm not sure if I'm being too picky, or if some of the guys I meet just aren't right for me. In my last relationship, there were some things about the guy that just drove me crazy. Most of them were trivial, but a few really bugged me. One of the biggest being his friends. I ended up breaking things off with someone who loved me. I can't stop thinking that I ruined a really great relationship and I'll never meet someone like that again. I've met someone now who has asked me out and I ended up avoiding him because I'm scared over going through the same cycle I always seem to go through in relationships. This new guy is handsome, sweet, funny and treats people very well. For some reason though, there's little things about him that bug me, but I know it's no reason to not date someone. Is there any way I can look past this stuff? I always end up hurting somone I care about. I know the perfect guy doesn't exist, so why can't I seem to accept that?
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| Tue, 10-26-2004 - 12:13am |
You are right, the perfect guy or the perfect girl don't exist!!! The sooner one accepts that, the better. That doesn't mean there is no "perfect for you", or someone that makes you happy. Know what really matters and what you look for in a person. And if someone has those qualities but minor flaws, I would give it a chance. Be brave, and good luck!
