Am I wasting my time??
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Am I wasting my time??
| Wed, 08-18-2004 - 3:22pm |
I've known this guy for almost 4 years now. We have been roommates for 2. He knows I have some feelings for him, I have the whole time. He however, seems not too. He keeps saying he likes me, and doesn't mind me, and wouldn't mind if i'd move to another state with him. But he never gives me any reason to believe it goes any further than, if i didn't live with you i'd love to be your best friend!!!! I've found lately that I can really tell how people are feeling towards me. I make get some impressions and my judgements based on them are usually right, which is bad for that person. My father was an emotionally abusive person and truly deserves to be alone (as he is now). He always criticized me and put me down and made me feel like the WORST looser in the world. He even made me burn my own things. My roommate now is starting to say and do things similar to what my dad did. He "lectures" and yells about dishes and all kinds of things. I HATE dishes. I've fought against doing them since my dad tried to make me. I would rather run screaming from spiders than stand and do dishes. I've also found out from a "mutual friend" of ours that he's been telling them he's sick of me and so on. So I guess I'm right in thinking that he really has ZERO feelings for me, nor will he ever and that I should just grow a spine and leave??!! Please, tell me if my intuition is right or not. Help me!!!!!!
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| Wed, 08-18-2004 - 3:30pm |
The answer would be yes, you are wasting your time. If he is saying he is sick of you and yells at you, forget him. Grow a spine and leave. If he had feelings for you he would be saying certain things but he is.
