and a boy came over for dinner

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and a boy came over for dinner
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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 2:35pm

Hi everyone!


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Registered: 11-30-2006
Tue, 10-09-2007 - 6:50pm
Generally speaking, if a guy is interested in a woman he'll ask her out.
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Registered: 10-09-2007
Thu, 10-11-2007 - 10:05am

I am in the same boat as you. I am really interested in a guy and he seems to be on the slow boat to dating. I on the other had am usually really fast. I want to jump right in. However, it's better to go slow and get to know him. A really good article that I read is here and it helped me.


Go to ivillage, then go to Singles&Dating, then Couplehood, then Relationships and click on "Why Guys Lose Interest" "What's behind "now you see him, now you don't?"


Or type in "Why guys lose interest" in the search field.


This really helped me slow down. B/c I really want this to work I want to play it the right way.


So my answer is "Don't ask him out again." Don't initiate any emails, text or phone calls or dates. If he contacts you via email, text, phone and/or ask for a date. Be happy to hear from him. Talk to him and be yourself. And of course if he asks you out say yes. Good Luck! I'm pulling for you.