Any advise????

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Registered: 06-20-2004
Any advise????
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Sat, 11-06-2004 - 11:11am
Ok heres the deal. I have this friend, connie, who just broke up with her boyfriend about three days ago. She said she wasn't in to him and that it was like going out with me, pritty much. She said that he annoyed her and wouldn't stop when she said something and she just didn't like the fact of that. Well she knew I kind of liked him. He, Danny, treated her like anything and everything I've ever wanted in a boyfriend. Well she asked him out for me. He said maybe. How do I know what he really means with out bugging him for the answer. The worst part of all is that an oppertunity came along at about the same time. A guy I knew in second and third grade, Kurt, remembers me even though I moved in the middle of third grade and haven't been in contact with him since.(it's been six years........WOW!) but I don't know if I should go out with Kurt or Danny. I know that the way danny is is just about everything I've ever wanted in a boyfriend but I'm not sure if he likes me. And quite frankly I don't know what he thinks of me especially with the way he was asked........by his exgirlfriend.......for the one who passed their messages to each of them..........who he doesn't know all that well but well enough to be his friend..........by someone less as good looking as the one he went out with before. I just don't know. Kurt on the other hand is gorgious. I think he likes me but again I'm not sure. At a dance the school had once him and a friend were aproaching me and my friends. his friend was ahead of him and I looked over. Kurt chickened out first and then his friend did. Kurt is always joking around with me and smiling at me in our shop at school. If he does like me I think he's playing hard to get because I'll smile and stare at him sometimes or I'll try talking to him and he'll blow me off or look at me funny and walk away. What should I do? Who should I choose? How can I find out Danny's answer early that way I can go to one or the other? Please help...............I'll take any advise I can get.

Dragonsbabyblue

thanks
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Registered: 06-05-2004
Sat, 11-06-2004 - 6:04pm
Dragonsbabyblue,

I think they may just want to be your friend. If either wanted to go out with you they would have asked IMHO. Danny said 'maybe' when his ex asked him about you, I don't think that's a very good answer/sign. With the other guy Kurt, you yourself said you try talking to him and he blows you off or looks at you funny and walks away. You ask...

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I think you are getting ahead of yourself here. You need to do nothing and unfortunately, it doesn't seem like there's anyone to choose. If either is interested, he will ask you. Even shy guys, if they like a girl enough, work up the courage to ask her out. If I were you, I would leave both of them alone. Good luck in whatever you decide to do. Lucy