Any of you ever experience this?

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Registered: 11-30-2006
Any of you ever experience this?
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Sun, 04-15-2007 - 1:32pm

Just wondering, if any of you ever experienced this: - I'll use the lyrics of a song, INXS, "Need you Tonight", especially the part:

"Come over here * All you got is this moment the 21st century is yesterday you can care all you want everybody does that's okay * so slide over here and give me a moment your moves are so raw I've got to let you know I've got to let you know you're one of my kind * I need you tonight cause I'm not sleeping there's something about you girl that makes me sweat * how do you feel I'm lonely what do you think Can't think at all Whatcha gonna do Gonna live my life * so slide over here and give me a moment your moves are so raw I've got to let you know I've got to let you know you're one of my kind."

Substitute "girl" for "guy" if you are a female.

Have any of you ever experienced this because of another person?

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 3:19pm
I believe people have experienced that, yes
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Registered: 11-30-2006
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 8:17pm
But wait...there's more. That was just the tip of the iceberg. Let me tell you how my mind and body are responding to this. I'll be doing a chore, going shopping, doing clerical work, whatever...everything is fine and then all of a sudden "bam" a thought enters my mind that I did not consciously put there - like.... we're having sex inbetween coats of housepaint I'm applying. This is not normal. Like, I get a desire to kiss him out of nowhere. What the h*ll is happening to my mind? I curse him under my breath. It is soooo not fair.
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Registered: 10-14-1999
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 9:03am
Its called Lust......:)

Toni

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Registered: 11-30-2006
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 10:35pm
Okay, riddle me this tonitoons...how can you miss someone you have never met, live and in person? I understand that what I also feel is lust, but this is too much already. And I know I'm not crazy or delirious. I just checked this morning...yup...no crazy or delirious. But I don't know what else to do - I have never been this way before, damn him. It would be so pompous of me to think that he could go for me, you know? But a wee little voice inside says, "Ya never know." That is why I emailed him. I think he lurks on a message board I post on everyday, he kind of gave it away recently. But, like I said, if he never responds, then such is life and then I go on because I have no choice but to go on.
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Registered: 10-14-1999
Sat, 04-21-2007 - 10:18am

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you can't miss 'him' because you don't know 'him' - you are 'missing' what he represents to you, your fantasy of him and what you wish for.

Toni

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Registered: 11-30-2006
Sun, 04-29-2007 - 10:19pm
You know, I had to take some time to think about what you said and digest it. I know what you are saying makes sense. It is logical. However, what I have experienced with this, it is not rational or logical. This person is significant to me in someway, I just don't know what that way is yet. I never verbally spoke to this person and I only noticed him in the last year as someone who I could see myself with. I don't know why I didn't notice him sooner but after 2002 my life has been terrible do to a crime of which I am the victim. So my mind has only been focused on survival until the last 6 months. I experience a "pull" towards him and while it feels nice it is not like other times I've been attracted to people. But I appreciate your honesty and I keep your statement in the back of my mind. On a lighter note, I wont discuss my fantasy of him, hehehe *wink*.

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