Anyone else feel alone and frustrated??
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Anyone else feel alone and frustrated??
| Fri, 12-10-2004 - 2:23am |
It's been 5 months since the breakup of my ex boyfriend and I. During that time, I've come a long way. It still really hurts that he left me in order to see whatelse is out there, yet I don't really care about what he does anymore. Within the last few months I've met a nice guy to date but I'm just not that into him that way. Sooo...now I'm sorta depressed because I can't seem to find a nice guy out there to date. I'm only 21 so am I crazy for being so upset about this since I'm so young? Where is a good place to meet a guy?? I miss having a relationship :(

Bellina sends greetings! Well considering your last heartbreak of 5 months,hope you're on the mends from that fellow. A nice and informal place to meet can be at a Borders,Books type store where you can strike up casual chats over your tastes in reading,books,or CD sections..If someone you find seems to make eyecontact,smile and hopefully he'll be single,unmarried(see if there's any rings,although some marrieds don't wear them).Then if attractions are there,sit for some coffees,lattes,cappuccinos..just a thought.Or another nice place,that's not just a pick up place can be at a local theater,that has entertainment,like shakespearean plays,concerts,etc.It's good to meet through one's interests,whether you like art/museums,spectating sporting events where usually young men are plentiful,or through good friends and gettogethers/parties,etc..Whichever suggestion you select I believe you'll meet some very interesting and nice young fellows,as you're in your terrific 20s! Best wishes,luv Bellina
kitty1129...
Pianoguy thinks nearly EVERYBODY who has been involved with someone...(and all of a sudden that relationship is finished)...TRULY FEELS ALONE! The holiday season has a tendency to bring this loneliness out even more because...if you believe all the songs, and all the advertising...everything is 'pitched' toward COUPLES!
While it would be a lot easier for me to hum the tune: "I'll have a 'Blue Christmas' without you", I won't go there! But do you mind if I ask you something???
What makes you think you're an OLD MAID AT THE AGE OF 21?
Hell...you're just getting your feet wet when it comes to relationships! Mr.(or Ms) Right doesn't always show up the moment a person becomes "legally independent!" It can often take several years for the perfect match to show up!
If you give yourself a chance...without expecting ANY INSTANT COMMITMENTS...you'll probably discover that there are many of us who would "like to get to know you" better?
And you know what?
The more insight a woman has about us and our personalities (without being bossy or clingy), the more we realize that WE LOVE YOU...AND NEED YOU IN OUR LIFE!
Pianoguy