Anything wrong here?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2004
Anything wrong here?
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Mon, 12-13-2004 - 9:07pm
My bf whom I am with about 3.5 month by now is away in Singapore now. Before he went, he made a call to his xgf in front of me. His xgf called him on Saturday to say "happy b'day" but he was busying at preparing the lunch with me for his parents & he said he would call her back at 7pm. He didn't coz he was tired. He called on Sunday morning to say "thank you" before he went to Singapore. He didn't tell his xgf he has a new gf even his xgf heard that I was whistling. I was unhappy about that even I understand him. I won't tell my xhusband that I have a new bf until he told me he has a new gf. He tried to ensure me that I mean everything to him. We ended up saying goodbye nicely at the airport. He called me before the plane departed & said he would call me next day which was yesterday. He text me yesterday morning & said he was missing me. I replied & said I missed him very much. He didn't call last night which he should normally do. No text msg this morning either. Should I call him? He did say call him whenever I need him. I don't know. I never (hardly) called him. 99% time, He normally calls me. Should I wait? He suppose to fly back tonight or tomorrow morning. I won't be able to see him again before I go back to my own country for 3 weeks holidays. I felt that he is testing me. He said that I would call & he didn't. Normally he will do what he said. Is there anything wrong here? Thanks
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Registered: 07-24-2003
Tue, 12-14-2004 - 12:19pm
Hello iquestiongirl, welcome to the board!