Is this approach too "High School"?
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Is this approach too "High School"?
| Mon, 08-23-2004 - 3:43pm |
Hi there. Wanted to bounce something off the ladies out here. My name is John and I'm 36 years old (single, never married, no children). Now, I'm very interested asking out this girl I recently met through a friend of mine (who is also female and married). But, when we met, the introduction was just a matter of timing ... I was at a restaurant hanging out with a bunch of people and this girl just happened to swing by to say Hi to her friend. We were introduced, but she had to move on (her age was brought up in conversation after we met). Anyway, I do not know much about her and was planning on probing a bit through her friend ... mainly, "Is she single?" and "Do you think she might be interested in an older guy?" From there, I may be able to swing an opportunity to see her out again casually ... again, through my friend. Now, is this too "High School" of me? Since my friend likes me a lot, my thoughts are that if the answers are what I what to hear, yes, she's single, and yes, she would be open to dating an older guy ... she may tip off my interest and naturally "put in the good word". But, if this is too dorky of an approach ... please tell me. I could possibly arrange to see her again and ask her myself at that time. All thoughts are welcome and MUCH appreciated. Thanks!

I do hope she is not too young and she is of legal age, however. ;)
How else would you ever have the opportunity to see this young lady again, unless you approach her friend and ask
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And yes, again, she's legal (LOL) !!!
I think YOU should be the one to ask this lady out yourself.
You can do it.
man at 36. ..
In the past year I have been asked out by guys who are 10-15 years younger than me (I am 42)I wasn't concerned and neither were they.