argh

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Registered: 07-05-2004
argh
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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 9:11pm
I've been seeing this guy for a little over a month now. He lives about an hour away and is the one with the car, so we end up seeing each other maybe once a week with him spending the night. The thing is, i'm going crazy thinking about where this is heading. He's older- i'm 21, he's 28, and we did have a talk stating that we weren't seeing/sleeping with other people. I don't think we're officially in a relationship though.

Things are amazing when we're together, but he's so infrequent in keeping in touch. Last week, he texted me 10 times a day. He was at a bachelor party with friends last weekend and still kept in contact, with him coming straight to my place after he got back. I loved it, i really liked hearing from him that much.

The last time i saw him was on Sunday and haven't heard from him since (yeah ok, so it's Wednesday). Still, i'm going crazy. Am i just being paranoid? It's like a cycle- we go out and i'm flying high, he doesn't call for a while and i get all sad and force myself to emotionally distance myself from him (i've washed my blankets twice already! lol), he calls all of a sudden and it starts all over again. Of course, he probably doesn't realize what he's doing and thinks all is fine. Grr.

I do want a relationship with him but i don't want to scare him off. Should i just wait this out and see what happens, or do i have a valid reason for going crazy? Any advice would be great =)

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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: meow01
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 10:57am
It has been just a month
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