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| Sat, 10-14-2006 - 7:37pm |
How can I be sure if a guy likes me (I know this is asked ALOT, but...)
I have a crush on a guy and I think he may be interested, but I'm not sure if he is or if he's just friendly. I ran into him over labor day at an outdoor festival. I heard someone yell my name across the park...it was him. He was actually standing with a friend of mine. Later, we passed each other going to and from the band shell. He squeezed my elbow and asked if the band was on. At the bandshell, he came up to me and talked a bit about the act on stage. That following workday, i had to send a work related email (it was a mass email, he was included in the group). He responded and tacked on a "PS it was good to see you yesterday."
Just saw him the other day for the first time since the holiday for a volunteer event. He overheard me telling someone I was set up on a blind date. He turned around and, instead of making fun of me like everyone else, he told me how to cut the date short. He did laugh a bit about it saying "at least you got to see the guy" (I saw a pic of the blind date) but he told me to meet for drinks and call it an early night. Other guy friends say this is a sign of interest. Is it? he was loud and boisterous in telling me what to do...much louder than he usually talks (there were other people around, but he didn't need to be so demonstrative).
I am willing to make the first move (as many who know him are telling me I'll have to be the one to make that move) but I just want more to go on. Any thoughts?

Maybe you can arrange an activity for several of you - mutual friends, him. Let him know you especially hope he can make it and see what happens from there.