Attracted to boyfriends brother

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Registered: 03-23-2004
Attracted to boyfriends brother
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Tue, 03-23-2004 - 10:35pm
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and we have grown apart. I have considered ending things with him. However during this past year I have become attracted to his brother, he has all the qualities that I am looking for in a partner! I think he is also interested in me. Should I leave them both? Or try to seduce the brother?
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Registered: 08-07-2003
Tue, 03-23-2004 - 11:04pm
AdorableViolet,

You sound like me about 6 yrs ago. I dated a guy for awhile and we grew apart. I really realized that the feelings I thought I had I truly didn't. His brother wasn't that attractive when I met him, but over time he grew on me. He was funny and had every single quality I was looking for in someone. I ended things with my boyfriend and secretly his brother and I began talking about us. The thing is blood will always be thicker than water. If it came down to choosing between you or his brother it is likely that he will choose is brother. If he doesn't do you really want to be responsible for tearing apart two brothers? You are looking for someone to fill a void in your relationship and the closet thing to you who gives you attention you will feel attracted to. It has been 4 yrs since you have been out in the world. Get out there and find yourself, be single for awhile and enjoy it. You will find someone perfect for you, stop looking and enjoy yourself. Leave this all behind and move on. This is danger zone that will cause way too many problems. Good Luck!!!