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| Sat, 11-19-2005 - 12:58pm |
Well, today is my b-day. I've been dating a guy for almost 3 months now. He took me out to dinner last night, it was fine. I found out he was going out with his friends today riding. So, I'm not spending my b-day with him. That's ok not great but ok. He did remember and take me out last night. What really bothers me was no card or gift? What am I to think? I was surprised he didn't get me a gift and now I'm disappointed and wondering if this means he's really not into our relationship or b-day are just not a big deal to him. I'm upset and not sure what to think.

First of all, happy birthday!! Your birthday is about you, not your relationship. So, worry less about your relationship and think about all the great things you have in your life and pamper yourself a little. Your relationship sounds fairly new, and your guy did at least acknowledge your big day. Guys sometimes worry about getting the WRONG thing, and after 3 months maybe he just wasn't secure enough to get you something that you thought was lame. Anyway, I wouldn't worry about it. To me, dinner out with my guy would be better than a gift that doesn't mean much in the long run. Quality time is better, and it sounds like he was wanting to make sure he celebrated with you somehow even though he wasn't available today. I'd say that is a good thing!
Keep your chin up and eat some cake :-)
Seya