bad feeling about this...justified?

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Registered: 06-03-2004
bad feeling about this...justified?
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 11:45am

What do you think of this situation?

I have been dating someone exclusively for several months. His female friend Mary was recently here from out of town and met up him, his male friend, and a couple of her female friends at his place one night. They were drinking there and the girls didnt leave until fairly late. He told me all about this the next day and as much as I didnt appreciate the situation I still trusted my boyfriend and didnt suspect anything. Recently though Ive found out through one of the female friends that was there but left early, that my boyfriend and Mary were acting like something was going on between the two of them and that when Mary was asked if anything was up between them, she just said “I don’t know” very vaguely. He tells me she knew he has a girlfriend and that she has a boyfriend, but her friend tells me that mary told her that she broke up with her boyfriend before coming here. I just have a very bad feeling about this. Especially since alcohol was involved.