a bad kisser...a deal breaker?

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Registered: 01-08-2006
a bad kisser...a deal breaker?
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Sat, 02-18-2006 - 12:18pm

Hi ladies, (and guys too)

I have a question for you all. Is a bad kisser a deal-breaker or could you possibly attempt to teach them? I went on a date with a wonderful, successful and intelligent man (he is almost 31) last night, but he has NO IDEA how to kiss properly. I would feel stupid saying something but his kissing style (or the lack there off) is the one thing that turned me off about this man...what do you I? any suggestions? anyone been in this situation before and if yes, what did you do? Thanks so much!!

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Registered: 03-29-2005
Sat, 02-18-2006 - 4:52pm
i dated this one guy who wasn't the greatest kisser in my books but because i realy liked him, that fact was very trivial. i don't want to say tell him because to you he my seem like an awful kisser but some other woman may love it. i guess it really depends on how much you like him or not. if the kissing is bothering you that much then that's an indication tht you may not really like him as much to put this fact aside.
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Registered: 01-08-2006
Sat, 02-18-2006 - 7:47pm
I do really like him. We only had just a first date, so we just have to see where things go. Maybe I can see past this kissing issue, maybe i can teach him some too.