Being firends impossible?
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Being firends impossible?
| Mon, 04-05-2004 - 9:54am |
I met a guy a couple months ago, went on a date, no sparks flew! I thought we both understood that. Anyway, we chatted here and there after that date. One day, while chatting, he decides to give me this speech about not wanting a serious relationship. I'm guessing he wanted to make sure he wasn't leading me on. Which is good because I didn't want the same thing. After that speech we still spoke here and there. He still flirts alot but I take it lightly. I know if he could have a "one-nighter" he would take it in a sec and he also made it very clear he doesn't want a relationship. Anyway, A month passes by and I don't hear from him, so I just send a "hello" email. Well, before even asking me how I am doing, he starts blabbering about a relationship problem with a girl he's been with for some time.
What's the DEAL???!!! Does he take my "hello, how are you" as "I want you baby" or "I want a relationship with you" It's really embarrassing! I just say it to be nice but I think he takes it the wrong way. I should say that he has told me more than once that I should call him, that I better keep in touch etc.
Should I stop talking to him, is that what he wants? I don't get it!

Question - why only give it one date - why didn't you give it a second chance to see if there were sparks?