Being friends with guys?
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Being friends with guys?
| Thu, 07-29-2004 - 2:00am |
I am relatively conservative girl. I recently broke up with a guy. A friend said something like "if you can fall for him, you can fall for anyone." to help me get over him. This reminds me that I need more guy friends to know guys more in general. In the past, I hardly had very close friends who are boy. It makes me very easy to fall for anyone. I am very easy to be impressed by guys. I want to know guys more before I start any new relationship. Any suggestions? I really appreciate for any input related with this topic.

Do you have any brothers? Sometimes they can give you the best advise. I have three and whenever I have male problems I always go to them and because they want to ensure that no one pulls the wool over old sisters eyes; they tell me what the guy is probably up to and what I should do about it. I also agree with the other poster, there are many books out there that can give you insight about the opposite sex. I'm sure guys will also respond to your post but you might need to be more specific in what you want to know from them.
I did learn that I shouldn't reveal my feelings without 100% sure what the other person feels about me. And also, even he likes me (which I think the guy who broke up me did), it doesn't mean there something must happen.
I am becoming friend with his (the guy) friend now. :-) Yes, we are becoming friend because I was talking to him about our broken up. The friend has a girl friend. I am not worried that he will want more than friendship coz he won't. I think I will enjoy being friends with guys. :-)
Appreciate for any input.