Being "just friends" With My Ex Failed
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Being "just friends" With My Ex Failed
| Mon, 08-23-2004 - 10:56pm |
I just broke up with my boyfriend about three weeks ago because I felt that I wanted more out of the relationship. I felt that his feelings for me weren't the same as mine and he even admitted to me that he had a problem of openly expressing his feelings to people. He also told me that before he gets into a relationship, that he wants to get his life together, and I can understand that now. So shortly after we broke up, I started seeing someone else who wanted the kind of relationship I thought I wanted. I was wrong. I don't a relationship where I am talking to the guy everyday on the phone and always going out to do things. So after I told him I didn't want to pursue a relationship with him, he yelled at me and told me how much I hurt him, and in my house! But then my ex called me and I told him I wasn't feeling very good and started to cry and asked him if I could come over later that day, so I did. We talked a bit about that guy that I was seeing and I told him how I thought I wanted a more serious relationship, but realized I didn't. After some more talking, we ended up making out. I could tell he wanted to but was trying to resist, but I wanted to too because I missed him and realized I made a mistake by breaking up with him. We are both indecisive people, and that doesn't really help. When I was about to leave and we were both in the car, we started to talk about relationships again. He told me he didn't want to short change me and give me a yes or no answer about being in a relationship and that sometimes he doesn't want a relationship and sometimes he wants to grab me and call me his girl. He sounded frustrated with himself when he said, "I need to get my life together." I don't know what to do. I think I want to get back together with him, he makes me happy. I just don't know what he wants, I just want what we had before, a relationship where we saw each other a couple of times a week and hang out, that doesn't bother me.
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| Fri, 08-27-2004 - 10:21am |
Hello ladykitsune!
