Benefit of the doubt?

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Registered: 02-06-2007
Benefit of the doubt?
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Wed, 02-07-2007 - 12:22am
On a friday nighta bunch of my friends and I went to a club where they give free dance lessons. I dance for my university so we decided it would be fun to check it out. This guy out of no where came up to me and said his friend was into me. I told him I wasn't that attracted to his friend but more attracted to him. He then asked for my number. Within an hour he left a message on my phone saying he was really into me and wanted to get to know me better. We have talked for a few times on the phone and each time he makes me laugh. He tells me the things every girls wants to hear like I am beautiful woman and so on. I am a really busy person so we haven't had the chance to go out yet. I am starting to like this guy but am a little worried. A lot of the time when we are talking he has to get off quickly and says he will call me back in 15 min but never does. He manages his own resuarant so he is pretty busy too but I wonder if he really was interested wouldnt you make time? Is he just flaky or should I give him the benefit of the doubt? Help!!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 02-07-2007 - 3:58pm
Has he asked you out on a date yet? How long ago was it that you met him?
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Wed, 02-07-2007 - 4:01pm

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So does he eventually call you back or are you doing the calling? If you are doing the calling, I'd say he's being polite talking to you and is not really interested. If he does eventually call back, does he say why he didn't "call back in 15 minutes"?

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Registered: 02-06-2007
Wed, 02-07-2007 - 5:02pm
He has asked me out but I have been to busy and our schedules conflict. We met about 2 weeks ago. I haven't called him in a couple days but it seems he does he share of the calling.