Best friend boyfriend's behavior...
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Best friend boyfriend's behavior...
| Sat, 03-27-2004 - 9:15pm |
I've never met my best friend's boyfriend but I've spoken to him on the phone. Tonight my best friend and I were hanging out and he was on the phone and I chatted with him for a little. We tend to joke more than talk but that's fine with me. My girlfriend had the phone and he says something about having a threesome. I said something, she handed me the phone and I basically told him 'listen that is dis-respectful to my friend... you shouldn't joke like that...' Well he hung up on me!
So my question is... am I so far off base here? To me he is not showing my gf respect by joking around about having sexual encounters with me and my gf... Am I wrong?

So, yes, he was being disrespectful of her and you both. And if she doesn't get it, then it's not your problem, but you don't have to talk to him and pretend to like him. Keep clear until they break up.