Best way to behave with the ex?

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Registered: 12-31-1969
Best way to behave with the ex?
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Mon, 08-02-2004 - 5:31am
I'd really like to know your point of view about this situation.

How is it best to behave when you encounter an ex who you have no feelings for anymore?

From experience,ignoring them completely as if they weren't in the same room with me works best,and still does.If they come forward to say hello I reciprocate but move away shortly.

This weekend I was at a club with a group of people-of which a gorgeous & affable girl who had dated my ex bf a few weeks after he left me.At one point there goes the ex with his guy friend.She got all smiley,left our group & spent the best part of 45min talking to ex & friend.

Would really appreciate your insight...
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Registered: 05-17-2004
Mon, 08-02-2004 - 4:36pm
No contact with the x is the best thing to do!

An x is an x and should stay that way.I dont even waste my breath on an x, if i seen her anywhere if its months or years down the road. But i will say feelings do come back in a sense when you see the x. Not much for me, but for the x's i have dumped. IF i have some sorta contact be a club. The x will try and try to re-establish contact by a touch or simple gesture. I dont pay no attention and i'll just walk by them, even when i know they are in the vicinity.

An x to me will try and re-establish contact just to test you, and see if they still have that grasp on you. It'll make them feel good

I show no love for x's. I dont even give an x closure nor do i accept them as a friend