Between 2 men

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Registered: 11-27-2006
Between 2 men
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Sat, 09-22-2007 - 5:23pm

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Registered: 11-30-2006
Sat, 09-22-2007 - 7:43pm

While it would be easy for me to advise you to be true to your BF, your heart could be telling you something different.


These issues do crop up when men and women hang out together as friends when there can always be an underlying attraction.


The smartest thing to do...if you do not love Andy...is to break up with Andy and do NOT go out with Willy.

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Registered: 11-27-2006
Sat, 09-22-2007 - 9:41pm

Thanks for your advice snafu....that is just it and what I am struggling with on two things you metioned. 1) I do know that I want a family-good husband and healthy kids more than anything and know that andy and even willy would be great at it some day, so then why am I soo confused is what I am trying to figure out?


2) I do love Andy and care very deeply for him, I kept things very slow as we met in january and did not get serious until april as my divorce (moved out july 2006)

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Registered: 11-30-2006
Sun, 09-23-2007 - 1:14am

I cant believe that the people in your previous company snubbed you because you couldnt commit to Andy at that time.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 09-23-2007 - 6:06pm
I agree. The only way to truly figure out how you feel is to spend some time alone listening to your heart
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Registered: 11-27-2006
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 9:27am

I can’t believe I am typing this right now, but for me I am in shock with myself.