Between Mr. Right and Mr. Wonderful
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Between Mr. Right and Mr. Wonderful
| Thu, 12-29-2005 - 1:35am |
I have been dating a wonderful guy for a year and a half, and he is wonderful to me...I love him very much, but we have been fighting alot lately, and as we just moved in together, there has been a lot of strife. I know that he cares about me, but sometimes he is just very difficult and I find him hard to get along with, as if the dating woo has worn off and he doesn't feel like he has to treat me like a princess anymore. Not that I expect to be on a pedestal, but he is addicted to computer gaming, and I get about 20 minutes a night with him, when he is wolfing dinner, and then it's back to the computer, and I go to bed alone. It's a little bit hard to deal with.
Lately, my friend from high school has come back into my life, and I am glad for it. He was my first big serious crush, that one that I never really got over. We have been spending a lot of time together, and it is wonderful. He is so easy to be with, and never makes me feel stupid. He just got out of a relationship because his girlfriend of 2 years cheated on him. I don't want to sound terrible, but he is just so much fun, and I find myself wanting to talk to him and spend my free time with him, instead of my boyfriend!!! We have all three gone out together, so they know each other.
I don't want to waste my time waiting to be with my boyfriend, and he has no interest in getting married, but we are living together, and acting like a married couple. I just don't want to miss an opportunity if I'm wasting my time. Am I just in that relationship speedbump where you are just getting really comfortable, and it's normal? Or am I wasting my time and missing happiness?
Lately, my friend from high school has come back into my life, and I am glad for it. He was my first big serious crush, that one that I never really got over. We have been spending a lot of time together, and it is wonderful. He is so easy to be with, and never makes me feel stupid. He just got out of a relationship because his girlfriend of 2 years cheated on him. I don't want to sound terrible, but he is just so much fun, and I find myself wanting to talk to him and spend my free time with him, instead of my boyfriend!!! We have all three gone out together, so they know each other.
I don't want to waste my time waiting to be with my boyfriend, and he has no interest in getting married, but we are living together, and acting like a married couple. I just don't want to miss an opportunity if I'm wasting my time. Am I just in that relationship speedbump where you are just getting really comfortable, and it's normal? Or am I wasting my time and missing happiness?

sugarbeangirl...
Pianoguy has one suggestion:
"DROP THE CURRENT B/F AND BECOME A FREE AGENT!"
This way you can date as many men as you wish. .
You're certainly not ready to 'settle down' with anybody right now.
Pianoguy