BF of 1yr invited to a wedding im not
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BF of 1yr invited to a wedding im not
| Mon, 11-01-2004 - 10:14am |
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year now and he was recently invited to a wedding from an old friend of his. he talks to this friend on a regular basis but i have never met them. His friend is getting married and my name was not on the invitation and he has not asked me to accompany him. I cant figure out why he hasnt asked me to go... I saw the wedding invitation and the couple obviously doesnt have issues over money or the number of guests to invite so that cant be the reason. how can i politely ask him why he doesnt want me to go without it coming off wrong? and any thoughts on why he wouldnt want me to go?? I think some of the bachelors friends are planning a party at a strip club which i dont want my boyfriend to go to--is that wrong also of me to ask him not to go to the bachelor party? I know my boyfriend would not cheat on me but at this particular club the girls get very touchy feely with the men. help!!

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Sheri
At the very minimum, honor her feelings, regardless of what's on a piece of paper (the invitation), regardless of the outcome, regardless of anyone else's opinion.
That would be my approach anyway, hence my suggestion.
A~
Also, Bachelor Parties will never go away, no matter who you are with. I used to HATE them when I was younger; but with age and maturity, I've realized that if a guy is sleazy enough to cheat at a bachelor party, he'll cheat on you no matter what- dump him. I'd trust my now beloved at the most raunchiest of bachelor parties- I love him, he loves me and I'm secure with that.
Hope it all works out for you!
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