B/f not into sex last night..is he bored

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Registered: 09-19-2006
B/f not into sex last night..is he bored
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Sun, 10-14-2007 - 10:53am

I am so hurt right now.

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Registered: 08-26-2007
Sun, 10-14-2007 - 11:15am

WOW...just wow. You are way over thinking this thing. He said he was tired and not up for having sex and you made this into a huge issue. Most men, especially young ones, just don't put that much effort into making excuses. How about you just take him at his word, he was to tired and out of it for sex.

It's not like he said he never wanted you or will never want sex with you again. Given your post I would assume you could wear a man out with your need for reassurance all the time.

~~Or maybe he is not in love with me like I am with him? Because aren't people in new relationships, who are in love, wanting to have sex all the time?? Maybe he is losing interest in me??~~

Not always. Sometimes it's nice to go cuddle and fall asleep with the person you love.

Maybe he is loosing interest but I would bet it is more about your neediness than anything else.

LG
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Registered: 11-30-2006
Sun, 10-14-2007 - 1:38pm

I went through something similar to you with my second ex husband as our relationship was on the decline.

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Registered: 11-30-2006
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 12:20pm

"He says he expected a longer orgasm, and I told him they're usually only 5-10 sec long for females."


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