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| Tue, 12-13-2005 - 9:41am |
tomorrow i have my first big real date, which means no hooking up at parties or take-out dinner lol. This guy said he was inviting me to this fancy sushi restaurant which i love. the thing is, i've never been invited before by a guy, as i like to be independant and pay for myself when i need something. so what should i do ? offer to pay anyway so he gets that i'm not here just for the free meal? guys, what kind of behavior do you expect in this situation?
and just out of curiosity, how much is the sex-in-exchange-of-dinner stereotype true ?
and just out of curiosity, how much is the sex-in-exchange-of-dinner stereotype true ?

I say let him treat you. He invited you. Offer to pick up the tip.
As for sex-in-exchange-for-dinner - that's called prostitution. I have NEVER had sex on the first date. Ever. Some have, and that's fine, but you should never, ever feel obligated to have sex with someone in exchange for a date. You have sex when you're ready to have sex. Period. I don't care if he bought you a new car...you are NEVER "expected" to put out for payment. If he expects that, he'll find success on the street corners of any major city.