birthday??? asking again...

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-19-2004
birthday??? asking again...
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Wed, 09-29-2004 - 8:35am
I am posting this question again because no one helped me with this ...c'mon guys somebody must have a great idea to help me here....

I have been dating this really wonderful man for a little over three months now and the relationship is really moving along nicely. It's been years since I was in an exclusive, serious relationship and it feels really wonderful. However I am not very experienced as I was married most of my life and in a couple of weeks it will be my BF's birthday and I am pretty clueless as to what I should do to make it really special. I know this is probably a trivial thing to ask about here but I am getting anxious over this and I would like some advice. The day after his b-day we are going to the Napa Valley for 5 days vacationing...excited about that...He has great taste, very discerning. Likes fine wines, he is a golfer, owns a beautiful home full of very tasteful things....So what do you get the man who has everything??? I would like it to be romantic and thoughtful and something different...any suggestions????

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Wed, 09-29-2004 - 2:22pm
I think the best gifts are the things we do for someone, rather than a thing. You can make a picnic lunch, bring a bottle of wine and take him somewhere nice. Give him a whole body massage and just treat him like a king for a day. Give him a card with *tickets* in it for free massages, rub downs in the shower, sexy kisses, etc...

Alison

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