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| Wed, 04-07-2004 - 10:43pm |
One of the things that changed his thinking was on our way home, it was very late and we were both extremley tired. When we got off the interstate, we were a mile from my house and he wanted to stop at a gas station and use the restroom. I told him that surely he could hold it one more mile and that seemed to set him off. It seems so insignificant to me apparently it was a bigger deal to him. I thought a lot of it had to do that he was tired and just in a bad mood. He said there was a couple other things during the trip that really were just too ridiculous to mention so I don't know what they were. I wish now that I had asked him before he took his "space".
He's never been like this before. He is one of the most laid back, giving people I know. It's not like him to get so bent out of shape. I've never even seen him mad. I'm at a loss. If it's space he wants, it's space he gets. I'll wait for him

You know what - take this as a blessing - that you get to see how early that he 's not always Mr. Laid Back - i am not saying it's a dealbreaker but just valuable information for you to know. Take it easy and enjoy the holiday (the real holiday, if you celebrate this week and yes the holiday from him).
If he does come back, I would sit down and have a talk with him. Let him know how it bothers you that he just couldn't come out and talk about these things and that in the future, rather than running you should work it out. (I would say it in a much nicer manner though.)
Let us know what happens... Good luck. :)