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| Wed, 09-29-2004 - 1:53am |
I was looking for a little advice or opinions on getting involved with a new nieghbor that has moved in. We hit it off right away but I was a little wiry because he had just been engaged a few months before and she had broken it off. I am not sure if it is the best idea to get involved not only with a neighbor but someone that just got out of a serious relationship.
I can tell he is interested but I have also seen him dating other women. Which is fine with me because I don't expect he or I not to date others this early off. But the problem is I can see when he goes out with other girls. This part is hard for me, not that he is dating them but that I can see them with him. But he still comes after me.
I still like him and want to hang out but is it best that I try to keep it just as friends even though we are attracted to each other? He is always coming out to talk to me and invite me to hang out with him. We have kissed and spent the night a couple times. But hang out a lot as friends also. Does he just seee me as a friend that he can hook up with? But it confuses me that he always seems to know when I am leaving and he runs out to talk to me or see if I want to hang out.
I am so confused. We will be neighbors for awhile and I want to hang out with him and definitly be friends. But I also like him. I don't know if I am treading on water with him just getting out of an egagement a few months ago and he just wanting to date many women. Am I just one of the man or is there potential there.
He definitly does not seem like a jerk and was definitly hurt by the break up. Any advice will help.
