boy is shy...make the first move?
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boy is shy...make the first move?
| Sat, 06-26-2004 - 1:21am |
I'm dating someone I think I kinda like (this is unusual). He's really, really, really shy. I don't think he's had much experience with women. Problem is, I've barely had any experience with men! (I am a 26-y-o "virgin"). I think there's a chance he might like me, but I can't see him ever doing anything about it. I don't know how to kiss someone first or anything like that (I've only done that when HEAVILY intoxicated and I don't know the other person). So what do I do??

I was in your boat a few months ago. I just started dating the guy that I'm dating right now and I had the initial concerns you did. I remember after our second date, I wanted to kiss him good night and it didn't happen and I felt like such a moron afterwards. Also, I'm kind of the old fashioned gal who wants the guy to make the first move (partly due to my inexperience) But on our third date, we had an opportunity to get to know each other afterwards and the the timing was perfect. Words can't even describe it although it was pretty casual. I'd just say don't worry too much about it. If you guys are still going out and doing stuff together, he's still interested. And the perfect moment will come eventually just don't think too much about it. And things will come naturally from there. And if it doesn't at least the guy didn't try to take advantage of you physically or anything, he respected you.