Boy Troubles!

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Registered: 02-29-2004
Boy Troubles!
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Sun, 02-29-2004 - 4:26pm
There is this guy that I have been friends with for a while, and I think there is a connection between us. The trouble is, He has a girlfriend. It's strange though because they are completely mismatched, and he complains about her constantly. He has even called her "mom." To make things worse, we openly flirt in her presence. I wonder if I should tell him about my feelings. I know it's wrong to sabotage a relationship, but isn't this almost like I'm giving him an easy way out? Or should I just wait it out and let him make a move?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: louister
Sun, 02-29-2004 - 5:36pm
I think it's tacky and pathetic of you to flirt with him when they are together -it is none of your business what he sees in her and you need to wait for him to break up with her and ask you out on a proper date- all he knows of you now is that you're a flirt who doesn't respect others' relationships and you are a sounding board for his complaining about his girlfriend - do you want him to complain to others about you someday?